Madelaine's Journey with Leukaemia: January 2008

Madelaine's Journey With Leukaemia

Welcome to 'Madelaine's Journey with Leukaemia'.

This is a site about my Daughter, Madelaine.

Madelaine was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia when she was 14 months old.

The purpose of this site has many facets. Firstly, we (Mummy and Daddy aka Lisa Howe and David Armistead) find it therapeutic to look back on her journey through her illness. We believe she will get better with every breath in our bodies and we want her to read this in her adulthood and wonder what all the fuss was about!
It is for our families and close friends in the hope that they too may have a deeper understanding of her illness and also the issues surrounding it. Also, other parents that find themselves with seriously ill children may find some comfort knowing that they are not on their own. We are are all on this journey together.

Mostly, this is for Madelaine.
One day she will read this and realise her parents have gone mad.........
And she will know how much she is loved..

Dave and I would like to also thank everyone who has supported us throughout Madelaine's illness.

Many people have asked what they can do to help us. Well, we have created a fundraising page on behalf of Madelaine and ourselves with proceeds going to the Candlelighters Trust. The Trust help children with cancer and their families. They have helped us. Unfortunately, there will always be children with cancer and there will always be a need for Candlelighters. So if you want to help, please donate and click on http://www.justgiving.com/madelaineeve

Also, Madelaine and children like her rely on the availability of blood. Madelaine has had many blood transfusions. So if you don't already, please give blood if you can.

And please continue to say your prayers.

Thank you. x

January 16, 2008

Intensive Block Number 2....almost....

Intensive block (number 2) was supposed to start today. However, Madelaine's neutrophils were too low. At first I felt relieved but it soon turned to concern. She has had a week off mercaptorpurine (the chemotherapy that we administer orally at home). We hoped that her neutrophils would have recreated themselves and increased, ready for the block. I wish I had asked the doctor more questions now. I will next time. (Note to self - ASK MORE!). I worry when I don't know the answers. So I worry most of the time!
Apart from this hiccup, Madelaine is learning so much. She has much more confidence with her walking and she can now talk the hind legs off a donkey. Her appetite is huge and has a penchant for Happy Meals ('Burger and chips, please, Mummy. Soon.')
I want this intensive to start and be gone. The sooner it starts, the sooner it finishes.

January 2, 2008

Khadija

I feel a little low right now. A little girl called Khadija whom we met on ward 10 passed away. She was 10. She played with Madelaine in the playroom sometimes. She was a beautiful little girl; very kind, talkative and very pretty. And always with a sparkle in her eyes and a smile too. My friend Wendy (whose little boy, Miles, was in Intensive Care at the same time as Khadija, and is now doing very well at home and begins a maintenance block of treatment very soon) called me to tell me the news.
I spoke with Khadija'a mum many times on the ward when we wandered up the parents kitchen, not exactly knowing what day it was or why this had happened to our babies and both of us needing an ear to listen and a hug.
I cannot bear trying to feel how Khadija's mum feels. It's too much for my heart to feel. I am just so very sorry and so sad that such a lovely, beautiful, young life has gone. And I feel so much heartbreak for the family.
Khadija. Rest in Peace, sweetheart. It was such a pleasure knowing you and your family. x

Good Friday Bike Ride

Just a note to everyone about a sponsored bike ride that is taking place on Good Friday for the Candlelighters Trust.
Madelaine's Uncle Clive and Auntie Barbara have organised a sponsored Bike ride. This is taking place on Good Friday (10th April '09). It starts at Yeadon Tarn at 08:30 and finishes at Pateley Bridge. Several people are participating in the ride, including, Maddie's Daddy, Uncle Clive, Steve, Lee and Brendan.
The ride is 22 miles long, and if you are familiar with the route, it's full of hills and beautiful countryside which will make for a very interesting ride.

If you would like to sponsor the boys on their journey, you can donate directly to Candlelighters by clicking on :

Many Thanks for your support

About A.L.L. (Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia)

Well, A.L.L. is the most common childhood Leukaemia in the UK. Dave and I were thankful that this is what she had. This might sound bizarre. We are thankful that she something that the Medics know alot about; that they know how to treat.

Approximately 1500 children in the UK are diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia each year.

Basically, it is cancer of the blood.
This is how Leukaemia Research explain:
'A..L.L. is a form of cancer that affects the lymphocyte producing cells in the bone marrow. Lymphocytes are white blood cells that produce antibodies and are a vital part of the bodies immune system. There are two types of lymphocytes called B and T cells.
In A.L.L. there is an accumulation in the bone marrow of immature lymphocyte precursor cells, called Blast cells.
Eventually, the production of normal blood cells is affected by this resulting in a reduction in the numbers of red cells, normal white cells and platelets in the blood'.

I can't speak about anyone else, but I couldn't spell leukaemia or know what what a platelet was before Madelaine's illness....

Dave and I have have been educated very quickly with regards to the functionality of our blood.
We recieve a sheet full of her blood results and are told that these are the important ones for us to pay particular attention to:

White Blood Count - Fight infection
Red Blood Count - Carry oxygen around the body
Platelets - Cells clot to stop bleeding
Neutrophils - Fight infection and are the most numerous of the White Blood Cells

Candlelighters Information

Just a little word about Candlelighters.
They are a charitable organisation that raise money for many things. Such as medical equipment, research and holidays for the families of poorly children. Every child that has attended St James Ward 10 or the Outpatient Clinic has benefitted from Candlelighters donations, even with assistance to parents with petrol bills to and from the hospital, and of course, items that make a poorly child's life a little more bearable, toys, TV's, and those electronic games that Daddy's like too.....!
Candlelighters also fund members of staff attending training courses and medical journals and books. They have provided funding for a children's Playleader in the Outpatients clinic.

The have an office in St James' Hospital. I have inserted a link if you wish to donate to the charity. Please donate if you can. I know from experience that this is not nonsense. This charity actively give. Everyday in one way or another they help children with cancer.

If you can, please donate. It helped me, my Family and Madelaine, and there are many families, just like mine that need a little help.

Thank You.

(http://www.justgiving.com/madelaineeve).

They also can be contacted at:

The Candlelighters Office
Childrens Day Hospital
St James' University Hospital
Beckett Street
Leeds LS9 7TF

Tel: 0113 2470372
Fax: 0113 2470248

Madelaine and ourselves have greatly appreciated what Candlelighters are doing to make our lives a little more bearable.